Engagement Announcement Etiquette
Q. My wedding date is still two years away. When should an engagement announcement appear in the paper?
A. As a general rule, engagements should be published no more than a year and not less than six weeks before your wedding.
Wedding Ceremony Etiquette
Q. Which side of the church/venue should wedding guest be seated?
A. Traditionally the bride's family and friends are seated on the left side of the church facing the altar. The groom's family and friends will sit on the right side of the church. The parents sit in the center section; the bride's on the left and groom's on the right.
Q. Which order should the bridal party walk down the isle
A. The wedding party enters, bridesmaids first, the maid of honour follows behind the bridesmaids, and the flower girl and ring bearer behind her. As everyone takes their places at the front of the church, the organist will change to the music for the bride and her father's entrance.
Q. Do I walk down the aisle on my father's right arm or his left?
A. You will take your father's left arm as you walk down the aisle. Your father will then be on your right when your groom joins you from the right at the altar.
Wedding Reception Etiquette
Q. What should the seating arrangements be at the bridal table?
A. Traditionally, the Bride and Bridal attendants are placed to the left of the table and the venue, while the Groom and his Groomsmen are on the right. A modern alternative is to alternate males and females.
Q. Our wedding reception will be a large, sit-down dinner. What is the best way to direct guests to their places?
A. Use place cards on the tables. Then display a seating chart where your guests can see it, so they won't have to go from table to table searching for their places.
Q. Do the bride and groom dance with each other before of after their parents?
A. Traditionally, the bride and groom will be alone on the dance floor for the first dance song. Sometimes the bride's father will cut in and dance with the bride halfway through, but sometimes the second dance is reserved for the bride and her father. Brides who have more than one father figure may wish to dance with both during the song. It is often customary for the father of the bride to choose and organise the song as a gesture to his daughter. Shortly after the bride and her father take to the dance floor, traditionally they are followed by the groom and his mother. Finally, the newlyweds dance with their in-laws, and bridesmaids and ushers join the dancing.
Wedding Gift Etiquette
Q. Can we ask for money instead of wedding gifts?
A. Not only can you ask for money instead of wedding gifts, in Australia most brides do. These days it is not taboo to ask for money instead of gifts as most brides and grooms already have established homes, whether together or separately. Guests often find it a welcome relief not to have to choose gifts and then lug them to the wedding venue. The easiest way to ask for money instead of wedding gifts is to include a 'wishing well' with your wedding invitations.
Q. If people bring gifts to our reception, do we have to open them there?
A. Not only do you not have to, you shouldn't. It used to be considered bad manners to even bring gifts to a reception. While that is no longer true, you should still have a 'gift table' where guests can leave them until you can open them later.
Q. Should I buy my fiancée a wedding gift?
A. While there is no rule that says couples should exchange wedding gifts, most do. Usually brides and grooms choose something they know will be treasured for years to come. Special gifts for either the bride or groom include watches, jewellery or luggage.
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
Monday, October 25, 2010
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Something Old, Something New.....
A well known tradition is "something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue, and a lucky sixpence in her shoe." This most familiar of wedding-related sayings dates back to Victorian times.
"Something Old" symbolizes the connection the bride will maintain to her family and the past. Many brides abide by this tradition by choosing to wear an heirloom piece of family jewellery or the wedding gown belonging to a grand mother or mother.
"Something New" wishes good fortune and success in the bride's new life. The wedding dress is most often the chosen new item.
"Something Borrowed" serves to remind the bride that friends and family will be there for her whenever she may need their support or assistance. The borrowed object can be almost anything of her choosing, such as an antique handkerchief, an item of jewellery or a handbag.
"Something Blue" denotes faithfulness and loyalty. The symbolism dates back to biblical times when blue represented purity and constancy. Brides often choose to wear a blue garter to keep with this tradition, or, blue ribbons in their hair to symbolize fidelity.
"A Silver Sixpence in her Shoe" represents the wishes of loved ones to the bride, in the hope that she will have both financial security and happiness.
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
"Something Old" symbolizes the connection the bride will maintain to her family and the past. Many brides abide by this tradition by choosing to wear an heirloom piece of family jewellery or the wedding gown belonging to a grand mother or mother.
"Something New" wishes good fortune and success in the bride's new life. The wedding dress is most often the chosen new item.
"Something Borrowed" serves to remind the bride that friends and family will be there for her whenever she may need their support or assistance. The borrowed object can be almost anything of her choosing, such as an antique handkerchief, an item of jewellery or a handbag.
"Something Blue" denotes faithfulness and loyalty. The symbolism dates back to biblical times when blue represented purity and constancy. Brides often choose to wear a blue garter to keep with this tradition, or, blue ribbons in their hair to symbolize fidelity.
"A Silver Sixpence in her Shoe" represents the wishes of loved ones to the bride, in the hope that she will have both financial security and happiness.
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Why do I need a Wedding Planner?
Here are 5 Reasons to use a Wedding Planner:
1. Time
Planning a wedding takes an incredible amount of time, especially if you want it done right. Depending on the type of wedding you are looking to have, you may find it difficult to plan it all on your own. Having a wedding planner is like having a personal assistant who is there to do all of the calling, ordering, and looking after details that you may not have time to deal with.
As human beings, we often fall victim to procrastination. In what can be an extremely high-stress situation, there is little room for putting things off. Many women go into the wedding planning process without knowing the first thing about timelines, and that can lead to some preventable disasters down the road.
Do not waste another minute worrying about what you don’t have time to do. Get back on track by hiring a wedding planner.
2. Knowledge
Here’s a novel idea: Wedding planners plan weddings!
Have you or your friends and family ever planned a wedding before? I’m going to venture to say the answer is no, and even if the answer is yes, I’m sure it hasn’t been many. So why are you leaving one of the most important days of your life up to amateurs?
Well-known and respected wedding planners have been doing their job successfully for quite some time, so they know where to find the best flowers, the best photographers, and the most original centrepieces. It is their job to listen to your dreams and make them a reality, so why would you settle for anything less?
There is very little that a good wedding planner can’t do.
Let them be the professionals they were meant to be, and give yourself a chance to enjoy the engagement.
3. Support
Let’s face it; men are not always the best partners when it comes to planning a wedding. They would rather let you choose the colour combinations, flower arrangements, cake flavours and seating arrangements. After all, this is your wedding, not theirs. Many brides rely on mothers, sisters and best friends to help with the details, but I say you should turn to someone who can provide the ultimate guidance and be completely honest.
Wedding planners are as much there to lend support as they are to take control. Sometimes planning a wedding can seem like an impossible task, but a wedding planner has numerous lists giving him or her instant access to the best of everything, including books full of stunning displays to bring your ideas to life.
4. Affordability
Weddings can be an expensive undertaking, and while hiring a wedding planner can seem like a superfluous cost, it could save you money in the long-run. Wedding planners have valuable connections with tried and tested professional suppliers.
They will also work within a budget, so as long as your eyes are not bigger than your wallet, they should be able to give you everything you desire, and perhaps a little more.
A wedding planner will ensure that you only receive the best.
5. Attention to Detail
Any event has the potential to look nice, but it is the attention to detail that really gives a special occasion some life. We all know there are certain things that must be covered when planning a wedding. These include finding a dress, choosing colours, picking flowers, selecting locations for the ceremony and reception, and so on. But beyond that, how do you make your wedding memorable?
This is what wedding planners were made for. A vast portion of their job is to take the wedding of your dreams and make it better.
Let them.
Check out www.kissweddings.com.au and make an appointment for a complimentary, obligation free meeting.
1. Time
Planning a wedding takes an incredible amount of time, especially if you want it done right. Depending on the type of wedding you are looking to have, you may find it difficult to plan it all on your own. Having a wedding planner is like having a personal assistant who is there to do all of the calling, ordering, and looking after details that you may not have time to deal with.
As human beings, we often fall victim to procrastination. In what can be an extremely high-stress situation, there is little room for putting things off. Many women go into the wedding planning process without knowing the first thing about timelines, and that can lead to some preventable disasters down the road.
Do not waste another minute worrying about what you don’t have time to do. Get back on track by hiring a wedding planner.
2. Knowledge
Here’s a novel idea: Wedding planners plan weddings!
Have you or your friends and family ever planned a wedding before? I’m going to venture to say the answer is no, and even if the answer is yes, I’m sure it hasn’t been many. So why are you leaving one of the most important days of your life up to amateurs?
Well-known and respected wedding planners have been doing their job successfully for quite some time, so they know where to find the best flowers, the best photographers, and the most original centrepieces. It is their job to listen to your dreams and make them a reality, so why would you settle for anything less?
There is very little that a good wedding planner can’t do.
Let them be the professionals they were meant to be, and give yourself a chance to enjoy the engagement.
3. Support
Let’s face it; men are not always the best partners when it comes to planning a wedding. They would rather let you choose the colour combinations, flower arrangements, cake flavours and seating arrangements. After all, this is your wedding, not theirs. Many brides rely on mothers, sisters and best friends to help with the details, but I say you should turn to someone who can provide the ultimate guidance and be completely honest.
Wedding planners are as much there to lend support as they are to take control. Sometimes planning a wedding can seem like an impossible task, but a wedding planner has numerous lists giving him or her instant access to the best of everything, including books full of stunning displays to bring your ideas to life.
4. Affordability
Weddings can be an expensive undertaking, and while hiring a wedding planner can seem like a superfluous cost, it could save you money in the long-run. Wedding planners have valuable connections with tried and tested professional suppliers.
They will also work within a budget, so as long as your eyes are not bigger than your wallet, they should be able to give you everything you desire, and perhaps a little more.
A wedding planner will ensure that you only receive the best.
5. Attention to Detail
Any event has the potential to look nice, but it is the attention to detail that really gives a special occasion some life. We all know there are certain things that must be covered when planning a wedding. These include finding a dress, choosing colours, picking flowers, selecting locations for the ceremony and reception, and so on. But beyond that, how do you make your wedding memorable?
This is what wedding planners were made for. A vast portion of their job is to take the wedding of your dreams and make it better.
Let them.
Check out www.kissweddings.com.au and make an appointment for a complimentary, obligation free meeting.
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Most Frequently Asked Questions
When should we order our invitations?
About a month before you want to send them out – remember to allow time for proofing all the items before they go to the printers.
When should we send out our invitations?
Usually 6 – 8 weeks before your Wedding date but this depends on who you have invited – a good idea is to make two separate lists:
1) List No. 1 is “Really Want to Attend/Must Invite”; and
2) List No. 2 is “Would be Nice to Invite”.
It is a good idea to send out the invitations early to those on List No. 1.
If individuals on List No. 1 are not available to attend, then you can send out invitations to guests on List No. 2 in a timely manner.
If you have a lot of guests who are travelling and will need to book flights/accommodation. A save the date card can be sent out as early as you like, or as soon as you have the date set, and is a nice way to give guests plenty of advance notice.
How many people usually accept an invitation?
Here is a formula to use for determining how many guests will actually attend the event reception...give or take a dozen.
# of guests invited x .66 x 1.15 = Total # of guests who will attend.
Example: 300 guests invited x .66 = 198 x 1.15 = 228 guests will attend.
When should we book our venue?
As soon as possible especially if you want a Saturday in peak Wedding Season - Spring
What does Wedding Insurance cover?
Wedding insurance like all insurance products is designed to provide financial protection should things not quite work out as planned.
However not all insurers will offer the same level of protection, so as always it pays to do your research and make sure that are happy with the level of cover being offered.
Here are some of the points you need to consider when taking out wedding insurance.
Levels of cover to compare when taking out wedding insurance are:
• Cancellation costs / Re-arrangement costs
• Loss of photographs & video
• Failure of suppliers
• Wedding cars & transport
• Contract disputes with suppliers
• Wedding attire
• Wedding presents, rings, attendants' gifts & flowers
• Wedding documents
• Marquees & hired equipment
• Public & Products liability
• Personal accident
• Professional counselling
Remember there is no such thing as the “best wedding insurance”. All wedding insurance policies are different, so it’s important to read the Product Disclosure Statements to understand what is and more importantly what is not covered.
Other things to consider
• Are you covered if you get married abroad?
• What about travel insurance for your honeymoon?
• What would happen if one of the key suppliers went bankrupt?
• Regardless of Insurance, what are the cancellation requirements with your suppliers? Will your deposit be refunded in full?, are there any additional penalties you will face?
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
About a month before you want to send them out – remember to allow time for proofing all the items before they go to the printers.
When should we send out our invitations?
Usually 6 – 8 weeks before your Wedding date but this depends on who you have invited – a good idea is to make two separate lists:
1) List No. 1 is “Really Want to Attend/Must Invite”; and
2) List No. 2 is “Would be Nice to Invite”.
It is a good idea to send out the invitations early to those on List No. 1.
If individuals on List No. 1 are not available to attend, then you can send out invitations to guests on List No. 2 in a timely manner.
If you have a lot of guests who are travelling and will need to book flights/accommodation. A save the date card can be sent out as early as you like, or as soon as you have the date set, and is a nice way to give guests plenty of advance notice.
How many people usually accept an invitation?
Here is a formula to use for determining how many guests will actually attend the event reception...give or take a dozen.
# of guests invited x .66 x 1.15 = Total # of guests who will attend.
Example: 300 guests invited x .66 = 198 x 1.15 = 228 guests will attend.
When should we book our venue?
As soon as possible especially if you want a Saturday in peak Wedding Season - Spring
What does Wedding Insurance cover?
Wedding insurance like all insurance products is designed to provide financial protection should things not quite work out as planned.
However not all insurers will offer the same level of protection, so as always it pays to do your research and make sure that are happy with the level of cover being offered.
Here are some of the points you need to consider when taking out wedding insurance.
Levels of cover to compare when taking out wedding insurance are:
• Cancellation costs / Re-arrangement costs
• Loss of photographs & video
• Failure of suppliers
• Wedding cars & transport
• Contract disputes with suppliers
• Wedding attire
• Wedding presents, rings, attendants' gifts & flowers
• Wedding documents
• Marquees & hired equipment
• Public & Products liability
• Personal accident
• Professional counselling
Remember there is no such thing as the “best wedding insurance”. All wedding insurance policies are different, so it’s important to read the Product Disclosure Statements to understand what is and more importantly what is not covered.
Other things to consider
• Are you covered if you get married abroad?
• What about travel insurance for your honeymoon?
• What would happen if one of the key suppliers went bankrupt?
• Regardless of Insurance, what are the cancellation requirements with your suppliers? Will your deposit be refunded in full?, are there any additional penalties you will face?
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Giving Bonbonniere or Favours
Giving keepsake gifts to guests is a tradition that dates back centuries. It is believed that it started with European aristocrats, who gave favours to celebrate marriages, baptism-christenings and birthdays, which then further extended to a range of special occasions.
Although difficult to pinpoint their exact origin, the prevailing thought is that the giving of favours originated in the Mediterranean areas in the 17th century.
Spanning the globe, these thank you keepsake gifts are often referred to as:
• Favors in the U.S., spelled Favours in the rest of the English speaking world, including Canada, the United Kingdom, and Australia.
• Bomboniere (bombonieres) - Italian; origin Italy.
• Bonbonniere (bonbonnieres); French speaking countries originating in France including Quebec, Canada.
• Boubouniere - Greek for giving; Greece.
Often referred to as wedding favour confetti couples gave five sugar coated almonds. History says that the five almonds represent Health, Happiness, Fertility, Wealth, and Longevity.
Today, giving gifts of thanks at a wedding are not a ‘must’ but it does reflect a couple’s appreciation for guests sharing in their special event.
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
Although difficult to pinpoint their exact origin, the prevailing thought is that the giving of favours originated in the Mediterranean areas in the 17th century.
Spanning the globe, these thank you keepsake gifts are often referred to as:
• Favors in the U.S., spelled Favours in the rest of the English speaking world, including Canada, the United Kingdom, and Australia.
• Bomboniere (bombonieres) - Italian; origin Italy.
• Bonbonniere (bonbonnieres); French speaking countries originating in France including Quebec, Canada.
• Boubouniere - Greek for giving; Greece.
Often referred to as wedding favour confetti couples gave five sugar coated almonds. History says that the five almonds represent Health, Happiness, Fertility, Wealth, and Longevity.
Today, giving gifts of thanks at a wedding are not a ‘must’ but it does reflect a couple’s appreciation for guests sharing in their special event.
K.I.S.S Weddings
www.kissweddings.com.au
Friday, June 25, 2010
Spring Weddings
It is only 2 months until we hit the peak 'Wedding Season' so if you are planning on getting married this Spring now is the time to get a move-on!
Check out www.kissweddings.com.au for our packages.
Check out www.kissweddings.com.au for our packages.
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